The Guessing Game

Quick Tip by Karin Cozzolino, Married 31 Years

TELL your spouse what you want and how you feel. Don't indulge in the game of making your spouse guess and then punishing them if they guess wrong. Don't expect your spouse to be a mind-reader. If you want something, if something is bothering you, TELL him...There is nothing crueller than having expectations, not telling what those expectations are, and then punishing the person for failing to meet those expectations.